If you're craving a teen drama that feels authentic rather than over-the-top, HBO's We Are Who We Are is the perfect antidote to Euphoria's increasingly unbelievable antics. Created by Oscar-nominated filmmaker Luca Guadagnino, this eight-episode series trades melodrama for genuine emotion, set against the sun-drenched backdrop of an American military base in Italy during the summer of 2016. It's a coming-of-age story that captures the confusion and beauty of adolescence without resorting to shock value.
The series centers on Fraser (Jack Dylan Grazer), a 14-year-old from New York City who moves to Italy with his mother, Sarah (Chloë Sevigny), a U.S. Army colonel, and her partner, Maggie (Alice Braga). Struggling to fit in at his new high school on the fictional Caserma Maurizio Pialati base, Fraser finds himself drawn to Caitlin (Jordan Kristine Seamón), the daughter of his Nigerian neighbors. What unfolds is a tender, messy exploration of first love, identity, and self-discovery.
A More Grounded Take on Teen Life
Unlike Euphoria, which spiraled into crime drama territory in its final season, We Are Who We Are stays rooted in reality. The show doesn't make sweeping statements about an entire generation; instead, it focuses on the specific struggles of its characters. Fraser's journey—feeling like an outsider, grappling with his parents' expectations, and navigating the complexities of young love—feels universally relatable. The Italian setting adds a lush, cinematic quality, with Guadagnino paying homage to classic films while keeping the story intimate.
The series also excels in its depiction of young love. It's messy, awkward, and often heartbreaking, but never driven by pure malice. The characters' conflicts arise from genuine emotions, not manufactured drama. This authenticity makes We Are Who We Are a more compelling watch than many other teen dramas, including the most perfect thriller shows that rely on plot twists.
Music and Atmosphere That Transport You
Guadagnino's signature style shines through in the show's impeccable soundtrack, blending classical pieces with pop hits from 2016. The music isn't just background noise—it's a character in itself, evoking nostalgia and grounding the story in its era. Blood Orange, who composed the score, even appears in the finale, performing at a concert where Fraser and Caitlin's paths cross. This attention to detail makes the series feel like a time capsule of a pivotal moment in history.
The show also tackles progressive themes like identity and self-love without being preachy. Set against the backdrop of the 2016 U.S. presidential election, it explores how political upheaval affects young people, but never lets the politics overshadow the personal stories. It's a delicate balance that We Are Who We Are nails, offering both escapism and reflection.
Why It's a Must-Watch
With only seven episodes, We Are Who We Are is a tight, focused series that doesn't overstay its welcome. The performances are stellar, with Seamón delivering a standout turn that captures the confusion of adolescence. The show proves that you don't need shock value to create a visceral experience—sometimes, the most powerful moments come from honest conversations between young people.
For those who found Euphoria's later seasons disappointing, We Are Who We Are offers a refreshing alternative. It's a show that respects its characters and its audience, offering a nuanced look at growing up that will resonate with both teens and adults. If you're looking for a teen drama that feels real, this is it.
